Can we talk excuses?
I’ve been full of them for the past couple months.
Trophy Husband got an amazing job opportunity that has required us to move to a different state. We are living in a 2 bedroom apartment when we are used to a much larger house as a family.
I’ve used the apartment as an excuse to not keep up with my healthy eating and fitness goals. The kitchen SUCKS. It’s a tiny galley style with almost no counter space and it’s an old school electric coil stove, which I hate! (people who buy electric stoves by choice- please tell me why in the comments! I need fire!)
I avoided cooking in this kitchen for weeks. I hate the stove, I don’t have most of my pots and pans or knives and utensils.
Because of this, we ordered take out a lot! Uber Eats was a blessing and a curse. (if you want to try it and haven’t already- use my code eats-paulad67 and we will both get $5 off!)
I gained 7 pounds in the month of January, due to my hatred of the apartment kitchen and pure laziness when my son and I would travel back home to Michigan while my husband stayed behind for work. Even when I had my beautiful big kitchen and gas stove at my disposal, I still found myself ordering takeout or hitting up the drive thru. My poor kid has consumed to much pizza and tacos that past couple months. (not that he’s complaining!)
Two weeks ago, I decided to stop the madness and get my life together. I actually went grocery shopping for actual ingredients and cooked most of our dinners at the apartment. It helps that on my last trip to our old house I brought back more of my kitchen gear that I was missing.
Since I started cooking again, I’ve lost 6.5 of the 7 pounds that I gained. Funny how not eating like a complete idiot will do that for ya.
Another excuse that I’ve had is that this apartment is too small to work out. I’m used to having my little workout room in my basement with a treadmill, a big TV, and plenty of room to do my Beach Body workouts.
Now I have this:
I finally got off my butt and started 80 Day Obsession. I’m on Day 12 and I’m LOVING it! It’s hard, but I feel great- stronger than I ever have.
And you know what- I need about 20 square feet of space to do these workouts. My downstairs neighbors may be a little pissed at me during the jumping jacks… but I try to land as softly as I can.
Speaking of 80 Day Obsession- something that Autumn Calabrese said a few workouts ago stuck with me and inspired me to write this post. I’m paraphrasing, but she basically said “Limitations are things that are beyond your control that you can overcome; Excuses are reasons that people use when they want to quit.”
This small apartment and less than ideal kitchen are limitations, but I was using them as excuses to not do what I needed to do. I made the decision to adapt to my surroundings and figure out how to make them work for me.
This living situation isn’t ideal, but it is temporary and I’m so thankful for this opportunity that my family has in this new city. And now that I’ve reframed my thinking about the apartment, I’m ready to move forward with my Weight Watchers program and fitness routine and finally reach my goals!
What limitations do you have that you are using as excuses? How can you overcome them? Tell me in the comments!